2nd chance..!!!!!!! so nice it sounds when we hear this word, just imagine this would be like a dream coming true when you are allowed a 2nd chance for the thing which matters to you a lot...and in the 1st attempt you could not justify it properly.Is it really so nice to have 2nd chance? Again before getting to that we should understand that we are not here to evaluate it in any terms rather we are here to understand the over all effect of it which that other chance will have…like wise we all know that if in any case we get the second chance that would be good but to what level it will be good is of more importance
Well...as a blogger I do not have the right to say any thing as I am here just to type what can entertain crowd so cannot throw up light on this in my way,but still..... the lust and charm what the 1st has, gets lost in second why this happens and what actually is this whole thing is very difficult to understand basically I may put numerous examples for it but it may not be enough for in depth know-how of what this second chance about which we are talking is,illustrating this I can put a innocent example which can help that why is this article so different and whats so new in this- A boy who wanted a ice-cream..he cried for it....tried all the tantrum in all the way and at last he got that favourite ice cream in his hand..... and suddenly after having one he gets second......he will have it but his satisfaction level was achieved when he ate the 1st one so on having another he may just eat it for the sake of eating.These stories and words would sound like a chapter of economics but the reality is that it is all together a new subject which still has not got any name.....what 2nd chance means to different people is more important then what it is.
Similarly if we see the other side of same example a boy who got the ice-cream in his hand, he starts eating it and suddenly he coincides with other person and the ice-cream fells down, now what has happened here is in the first attempt he did not got the chance to enjoy it but now when again he will get that same ice-cream he may enjoy, but whats hidden here is something which we should understand…. Lets rewind it again…. Boy who wanted ice-cream cries for it and after all childish acts he gets it means the ice-cream and cone which that first cup of ice-cream had..he got it with the same but when that falls down and he gets second will that second cone of ice-cream have the same lust and charm?
ANSWER to it should be given by you only...as now when you are reading this I do not think that to spend some time on answering will cause you any pain
My task is here to just to properly give equal weight age to the things so that they are in proper order as here also I cannot be just single track walker.So lets understand from a student point of view:
For a student for whom marks are more important and for him/her the second chance may work like a miracle as far as the final mark sheet is concerned.... but is it a wise decision to use the golden 2nd chance for marks and grades...as life is not all about marks and ranks.... its rather a long journey....If at all a 2nd chance is given...then it is important that where we use it... and if we use it like that only then it would just turn out like a second ice-cream.But here also as far as marks a concerned lets understand this by a story:
For a boy who was in his final year graduation what can be more important, obviously you all will nod your head on career and future which are now-a-days heavily dependent on marks..well being aware about it the boy also prepares himself in that frame and works.... but he was some where lacking, he knew it but was not able to detect it..... boy wanted to pursue career in management and thus he prepared for entrance tests....this all sound so serious as.... studies and sincerity is easily portrayed but things were not like that... he was studying but some where some thing was not working for him..this was what he concluded every time he felt that he was not up to the mark.The d-day means exam came...he appeared for it.... could not realise that the outcome of exam whenever will come it will change many things for him... well when gun shoots a bullet its going to hit somewhere so like that only,if you appear exam the results are going to come,for this boy also the rule was same and his results came....
when he Saw his result, he was not shocked at all rather started evaluating as to now what next,similar like flow of river water which continues to march ahead he appears for one more exam(here he was going to get two chances)...he was aware about it and well was looking forward to it.. but what was dramatic in it was the situation "the wrong input were given at wrong time" or we can also say that "efforts were put but not target ted properly" by now I am not just safeguarding this boy but actually trying to link him up with my blog.The story continues out of two chances which he got he appeared for the first got the result which was satisfactory now he understood that if some thing extra is given he can update the score easily, so he starts working on it... he focuses on ultimate aim of his.,which he has set for him....he appears for it and then the results which came were some where like the first one... now what was so wrong in this second attempt which he gave..."lust and charm" which was lacking...well as far as this boy is concerned he is now altogether on happy track where he is looking for some untrodden ways which will entertain him but this blog which is about second chance is now getting clear as what it is actually all about....
Now when we have talked about marks we should also understand that this is a very important page of a student's life as far as marks and grade are concerned and I think I have just showed you what can be termed as some first few pages of understnading about what can second chance means for a student and thats enough for understanding about the same but what about relations and love and emotions, well how can I leave this as this my favourite area of writing... again here will share a story in a different form
This time for all of you, who have social animal named GF/BF in your life, what second chance can mean to you is well depicted by video which is posted below.A boy who forgets about his date and what else happens with him after that is shown here, and also how he thinks that if a second chance if would have been there then he could have make it far more better... a hilarious but actually much different kind of understanding about how second chance can be so useful at times(but I personally believe that second chance always are not so useful)
well explained...
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