Proved love

              Again back with a topic which is more about practical approach towards life and how we can actually understand what is this life all about. “Proved love”, now what I have to say on this is more in form of story then just a  Blog , but I will like to add some proper understanding about the same. My intention here is to just show how this so called 21^st century  is looking towards the ‘love’ word.


         Talking about love in today’s world, I would like to reveal what’s the present know-how of the same: college going student proposing a girl saying “I love you”… the girl without any understanding either will accept his proposal or will reject but in both the cases, nothing is so good…. If she accepts then also and if she rejects then also…. I would just say that why complicate the things as complications would ultimately result in to a situation where things may work adversely…well this is  not what I want to say what I actually what to highlight is ‘love’ cannot be said it has to be proved. I know some of you may laugh that I have  gone nuts but some where or other you also know that love cannot be just shown by saying that ‘you love someone’ rather you have to prove it…. And the most amazing thing which Is hidden is the tenure or the time period which you get to prove it…time limit lets utilize few seconds to think about it…how much time is essential to prove our love for someone, 1 year, 5 years or 15-20 years…. Well the answer to it is…. Life time is required to prove some one your love. life time, just on hearing this some of you will just think how can I even think of it means life cannot be given to someone just on sake of love..but here I will like to reveal a short story which actually will show that how a life time is required to prove your love

                         The story is completely based in Indian setup… two people in there young ages.. one in early 25’s and second one around 18.The story is about how this two strangers tie their knot and bond each other in social bonding termed marriage. Indian concept in olden days was very simple arranged kind of bondings where two unknown come together and are then given a stage where they can live together rest of their life. Now what was so different in this can be brushed up by how both of them wage there journey in life. Both were married and started living like normal husband and wife do,economical condition was also good… everything was like happy life but things do not stay as they are as Bhagwad gita also says “change is basic rule of life”…. Time proceeds business set ups were also going through ups and downs… and ultimately they decide to start there journey alone.. where they themselves would be base of their life. They get a place where they started living with their children… slowly and gradually both of them makes their life count and every thing gets settle though at  slow pace. In this journey husband always needed his wife to be there in all ways… she helped him in his business, she consoled him whenever he wanted, and also made sure that children also are given proper understanding about life.In this over all passing of time both of then understood that how much they love each other... as love is not just eating together at MC Donald's or just roaming on bikes but its rather about accepting the other person and also making every possible step to properly understand that 'life is sweet even with out any sugar'.. again they get a blow on their base and everything got disturbed but they had the biggest strength that was support of each other... they both stood firm and fought every battle ... a time also came when husband had to go far away to earn livelihood but this did not affect their bonding.... after every sunset there's a sun rise the base again got firm and they got there problems handled easily though not solved completely. Today also when wife wants to have a orange juice husband makes sure that he gets it for her.... this what love is.... still it is not proved but process is continuing..

                            so this is what I had this time...so
                            "proved love" is not ended but just started