Every time it’s not about what we want and what we get. Basically talking about things I would say that sometimes getting what is the best, you can get ,still you are not able to accept it. Here I would without throwing any more theories proposed by me I will make a clear cut indication through a story, “crafted emotions” will deal with a person in center and how and what he faces and how he deals with it.
Here person who is talked about is very simple and one who makes sure that he gets through with his expectation to some extent. Now trying to relate the blog to story I would like to give a little outline about what’s the current situation and what was the past situation in which he was in. Kabir has completed graduation and now pursuing masters, like every normal collegian he had enjoyed his college life at graduation. Being a college boy of 18 when he entered the gate of college he always felt that he has to live his life to optimum and he did it, though had to pay a price for it as far as his result were concern, but again it was not a complete waste; something was there which made those three years amazing as many things were learnt by him. For any college life to be rocking friends play huge role and he was no new to it, he had friends though whom he had as friend for them he was never accepted as a friend that’s what can be confirmed now, people laughed out on his way of caring for them at every instance and made fun of him and many other issues were also there involved in it, still he was a foolish that he allowed people to do it, initially he thought that he was just having account phobia but then he was sure that he was also not good at many other things. Time never waits for any one and here also it was not going to wait for any one and year got added on year and slowly 1st year was followed by second year, and second was followed by third year. As it is said destiny always has a backup plan ready for you, here in third year there was something different it is said that sometimes you have to be well prepared for some bad to have some good and similar was the case here also, things and wings which have to be in order were not in that shape rather he was more deviating then he should as at the end he had to accept the consequence of it. Now the tale is not about this all its about how it is so dangerous to be associated with people and what it can term out to a socially attached human that’s what is to be considered here.
Having friends is not bad but having people around you who never conclude you as friend is problem. Young age of around 20 is more for aiming high in sky and working for it rather than making blood like friendship with people who always will change with season. Kabir was something different he thought about having friends and people with whom he can share everything and enjoy at par but he forgot that people worship only rising sun; everyone is just interested in you till you can serve their interest and day they find that you are no more their entertainment provider they will shift from you. Emotional patch which kabir had was his foolishness as at the end what matters was did he owned Audi or not, whether he had latest smart phone or not. In this all he also found someone whom he can term special but again talking about it will be like describing whole universe in a single alphabet. Many stories get plugged when we are in college small petty issues become so important, and that’s what a normal collegian is always made to go through, but at end you realize that it was mere waste of time. Like wise kabir had many friends in college but this over all ugly experience which he had in second half of his college life made sure that today when he is pursuing his master’s from a particular college. He looks to it that he hardly interacts with any one as he knows now that before also he was befooled by these emotions and now again falling in the same trap will not be a wise move.
Message on behalf of kabir:
Very few people on this earth find best friends…very few people get an advantage of having friends
I was not that lucky one…. I tried everything to make it work but again sometimes only criminals are allowed to do crime….
true :) hv experienced it.
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