First White Hair

First White Hair

Before writing anything or making any attempt to add more clarity on title, the words itself make the meaning more clear and in possibly simplest manner. When this group of words are read together they sound as if writer wants to makes an statement in direction of highlighting the truth of time which states that with time the wettest clay gets hard, now when this thing is presented in the such manner also it can help the reader to understand that passing time flows like running river water which only knows one thing that it has to keep on flowing continuously as neither it can wait for anyone nor it can stop for anyone.

One fine day Mr.Abuca the character of the story was standing in front of the mirror well he was well tired from his whole day’s work and was also occupied in some random thoughts for his tomorrow’s work schedule however in all this coming back to our placed mirror where he was standing he could see the first white hair amongst his all black and silky hair and from that moment of him visualizing or I can say his detecting of  white hair in no colored mirror he was then lost in series of thoughts which are presented in the below paragraphs. I am very much aware the way I am trying to write and present this story or thought to the readers it will definitely feel as if I am writing an answer to question asked in higher secondary examination but this the way it is and will be as after going through few taught basics only today I believe I am capable of writing this much.

What difference as an individual Mr.Abuca might be feeling when earlier he never detected the white hair and now he detected, as a child when we are small and hardly have any kind of responsibilities on our shoulder, we have all the liberty of trying few unknown things and swing in the air of experiment but slowly and gradually when we grow up or I can say time passes this urge of trying unknown things get reduced and ultimately it puts ourselves in the category called SMART where we think and then blink our eye. Trying new things in life always helps us to live the life different way and celebrate it and not just to pass it.

This post has many sides as it can be read with varied kind of mindsets which can help reader to get aligned with core content of this blog but again here it has to be understood that even while writing this Mr.Abuca may be getting his only white hair colored black, from here it can be known that the emergence of white hair has also created hesitance within him of not accepting how he is and modify to please others. If this is the case we should actually indulged in process of pondering that why it is so necessary to please others, are they (so called others) so important in our life that we are ready to change ourselves.

First white hair had been continued from here to another page as well but most important things which can be key takeaway from here can be let’s not create self obstacles for our own self by being SMART and not be so changeable for others.

# Made of great: Story of gardener

In this busy life where even to breathe properly we have to take route of yoga and other breathing techniques, it becomes more interesting to realize that life is more about visualizing the magic which almighty has left for us in our surroundings. The story which we will be reading today is all about simple and not so unique character which I have came  across in recent times , I don’t know his name but I address him as ‘Kaka, Gardener’ who works round the clock in my building taking care and nurturing the plants and trees from their seedlings. Talking about kaka (gardener), he is responsible for taking care of the gardens in the apartment and he is only person in his team, in short one man army who has to take care of in total 5 big and small gardens, his role and responsibilities are to maintain them and handle the small green babies with due care which without any doubt he does best.

My first interaction happened with him when I wanted specific tree leaves for particular puja which was to be offered at my home so while searching those leaves in the green mart nearby my building I sought his help for the same and the smile he replied with was more than the help which I believe was half work done for me and also I was given the tree leaves which I asked him. Then after we meet every morning when I am on my morning walks and he as expected busy with his task on hand of handling the green samplings, and we shared hand waving relation where just raising hands acknowledges our bonding on daily basis.

During our life we meet many people but out of them only few are the ones who leave a lasting impression on us and kaka was one of them who has left a impressive mark in my life, there are many things about him which I will like to showcase through below points

                           i.          His passion for work: Every day let be it any time in clock, kaka always remains busy with the work he has been involved in. I have always seen him working and focusing on his work which also highlights the word ‘passion’ which he carries with him and fulfils every aspect of it. Youth sailing in twenties and who have just started to get stable with their career, kaka is the right idol to follow as he teaches you a lifelong lesson of being passionate about whatever you do.

                         ii.          Sole dedication: If someone can define dedication then, kaka is the person who can do it in his own simple but unique style. Concentrate on what you do and leave rest for nature to complete, is simple mantra which he follows. Being involved in the nurturing of the plants, he just takes care of the them, waters them regularly and does not leaves everything on nature to assemble and do it for him as ‘The time we are dependent on the god, that’s the very moment when he is dependent on us’, is what I can learn from him and also I try my level best to imbibe it in my day to day work.

                        iii.          Concept of ‘Work is worship’: Yes, this is the very important and valuable thing which I have learned from him over the short time of my first interaction with him and have realized that he believes in his work. These days we see lot of times that people don’t have conviction in them and thus they don’t achieve what otherwise they can very easily. When we work out our heart and soul only thing which needs to be held is conviction and patience, kaka have sown many seeds in the soil and have seen them growing into fruit bearing trees which many of us today lack, believing in our own self is real key for success.

           Knowing person like kaka, has changed my life to extent as he has filled lot of enthusiasm in my soul which will help me to overcome any upcoming hurdles in my journey. Just to share another rare incident with him, once I offered him some money thinking he might be in need of that and he simply denied and from that day I realized ‘Materialistic wealth’ is only meant for some people as for others it’s just a paper.

Confirmation

"Confirmation – Feeling of affirmation"

“Develop an affirmation today, and start getting instant confirmation in all works of like.” Richmond Akhigbe

History is in its own example of how only element patience has proved to be most important key for success in any kind of work or in any field. When we talk about patience and its importance many things should be taken into consideration before narrowing down onto any kind of conclusive platform which further allows any rational mind to infer relevant insights which he/she might be targeting to get from this kind of relative study.

Today in the era of over occupancy of an individual in the work its difficult for him/her to get feeling of  happiness of  whatever he/she has done to make her/his living smooth, here when we are talking about confirmation which has very close relation or we can say synonym for conviction which he/she has earned, has to be very minutely observed as lot of individual examples will be highlighted just to add light of simplicity to topic.

Relation between confirmation and patience:

When a individual works throughout his life and achieves some milestone does it not mean that he has given his best in whatsoever form he could and now he has mastered the art of patience , confirmation in that sense is positive feeling which means individual has achieved control over anxiety which is very tough to achieve in this world.

To illustrate what can also be used as tool for cementing above point any movie star who has been in the industry for a quite a long time is best person to look at to understand this as now he has mastered the art of patience and knows very well that till his movie will be in theaters no one will be able to judge what level of response it will get, however kind of stardom he enjoys always help to forecast the business of movie but now as an actor that individual is very aware that work performed with precision always yields results, it may happen the movie may not achieve the numbers of collections but his/her role in the movie may help him to raise bar of performance and that can be set as new bench mark for all.

Overnight mountains are not made:

            Clock needs to move at its own pace as needles are paced rightly and when individuals don’t interfere in that then only they can be addressed as great. Let history be witness for this as there are lots of examples which can add concreteness and add more clarity.

            India was ruled by britishers and they were treated very badly by them, India was under developed and thus they slowly and gradually started taking undue advantage of that, this all always received criticism by people but still there was nothing which can be done to stop that many revolution started but expectation of sudden result always ended merely as one more attempt. But it was then, the chain of revolutions and persistent non acceptance of the foreign rulers over country, which helped the countrymen to fight it out and earn independence for country.

           
            These two points were more than enough to mirror views on the same and confirmation which leads to state of positivism always is being tested by tool called patience as having seed and expecting tree next moment is day dreaming.

Sachin Ramesh Tendulkar

It all starts with “Sachin…Sachin…!!” and I don’t  believe it will any ways end even after the master has already waved bye to the game which he not only played but I would say lived and has passion for right from his childhood. When any journey ends it always has lot of stories which have accompanied in the actual transit so is the case with god of cricket. Even one who  has no liking for the game or has no soft corner for the thrill involved in the game didn’t readily accepted the fact that now blue colour jersey will not have player with number 10.The game would have been of just three days but actually it proved out to be the most memorable and history creating days which have now been inked in the golden colour as it witness the master, for the last time directing the ball with his willow to all the directions of the wankhede park.

How time travesl has been very well known to all of us , but this man has actually seen some really tough times which he fought out and stand stood to first over come and then convert them into favourable ones. “When an individual fights hard for something and when he gets success in that , it becomes more important that then he continues exceeding his own set limits”, same was the page with him, he has very well understood this and did all this 24 long years in his own trademark way.

The person whose life has been all about running hard on 22 yards, has not only been fascinating but it has also been about that down to earth feeling which this person has showcased day in and out. Fame has always been the factor which adds wings to even ant but different was the case with god of cricket , he with every passing day understood that he is now more responsible and even a small error of margin will not be accepted, it was his own benchmark which he set for himself and nobody else.

Word by word I am getting more closer to feel his absence in the game, and this will only make this emotional wave more strong which is currently going though whole nation. I want to get little selfish over here and want my hero to continue playing for few more years but I know when he has taken a call it would be after reasonable thought process .I don’t want to end this , I want to continue like I always “Sachin…. Sachin….!!”

Crafted emotions results in healthy distance

         Every time it’s not about what we want and what we get. Basically talking about things I would say that sometimes getting what is the best, you can get ,still you are not able to accept it. Here I would without throwing any more theories proposed by me I will make a clear cut indication through a story, “crafted emotions” will deal with a person in center and how and what he faces and how he deals with it.

    Here person who is talked about is very simple and one who makes sure that he gets through with his expectation to some extent. Now trying to relate the blog to story I would like to give a little outline about what’s the current situation and what was the past situation in which he was in. Kabir  has completed  graduation and now pursuing  masters, like every normal collegian he had enjoyed his college life at graduation. Being a college boy of 18 when he entered the gate of college he always felt that he has to live his life to optimum and he did it, though had to pay a price for it as far as his result were concern, but again it was not a complete waste; something was there which made those three years amazing as  many things were learnt by him. For any college life to be rocking friends play huge role and he was no new to it, he had friends though whom he had as friend for them he was never accepted as a friend that’s what can be confirmed now, people laughed out  on his way of caring for them at every instance and made fun of him and many other issues were also there involved in it, still he was a foolish that he allowed people to do it, initially he thought that he was just having account phobia but then he was sure that he was also not good at many other things. Time never waits for any one and here also it was not going to wait for any one and year got added on year and slowly 1st year was followed by second year, and second was followed by third year. As it is said destiny always has a backup plan ready for you, here in third year there was something different it is said that sometimes you have to be well prepared for some bad to have some good and similar was the case here also, things and wings which have to be in order were not in that shape rather he was more deviating then he should as at the end he had to accept the consequence of it. Now the tale is not about this all its about how it is so dangerous to be associated with people and what it can term out to a socially attached human that’s what is to be considered here.

     Having friends is not bad but having people around you who never conclude you as friend is problem. Young age of around 20 is more for aiming high in sky and working for it rather than making blood like friendship with people who always will change with season. Kabir was something different he thought about having friends and people with whom he can share everything and enjoy at par but he forgot that people worship only rising sun; everyone is just interested in you till you can serve their interest and day they find that you are no more their entertainment provider they will shift from you. Emotional patch which kabir had was his foolishness as at the end what matters was did he owned Audi or not, whether he had latest smart phone or not. In this all he also found someone whom he can term special but again talking about it will be like describing whole universe in a single alphabet. Many stories get plugged when we are in college small petty issues become so important, and that’s what a normal collegian is always made to go through, but at end you realize that it was mere waste of time. Like wise kabir had many friends in college but this over all ugly experience which he had in second half of his college life made sure that today when he is pursuing his master’s from a particular college. He looks to it that he hardly interacts with any one as he knows now that before also he was befooled by these emotions and now again falling in the same trap will not be a wise move.

Message on behalf of kabir:

Very few people on this earth find best friends…very few people get an advantage of having friends

I was not that lucky one…. I tried everything to make it work but again sometimes only criminals are allowed to do crime….

It’s all fresh start

           

   Indian student basically has to deal with two main realities expectations and to live those expectations from him. Well in other sense it’s not at all wrong as when we are  being tested from the parameter of score card we have to always prove that yes every time we can bring the same good marks which we have been bringing from last many years and thus can rather provide support to the fact that yes we are intelligent. Now when a sudden blow strikes you in your way, we always would think that now it is over and well let’s analyze that where and what went wrong and in that we try to dig that soil which never belonged to our own land. The ups and down in share market are similar to that of human’s thoughts as sometimes it may be the case that we may be very positive about our approach and at times we may be very negative about our steps. Here issue is not what we can give to this and what we can take from this as it is well quoted in Gita “change is rule of life”. When rankings are out of any school exam, national level exam or any specific entrance exam we get so nervous that we forget that well this is not the end of life, as if for us this is last bottle of oxygen left and after this we will be not allow breathe and live, it is not even meant that we should not work for this exam and just blame them but sometimes some calculations go wrong and it happens as “mistakes are best teachers”

         There was a boy who was not sure about what he wanted from life was it fame or was it some degrees as PhD’s , doctorates or any tag which he will need to strengthen his social status in near future, still he was some in rough notion of how he can make his start and thus appeared a exam a decorative entrance exam, it is well said that “wear only those shoes which may suit your legs” but universal truths are only some statements from universe and not be remembered this is what he thought, now when this happens it’s obvious that “every music has some tones in it” so it also had some hidden agenda behind it.

          By this time exam are over and nothing is so interesting that should be added to it about exam but after that the turn  which came in the boy’s life was interesting as every time you do not need a tag to initially make yourself introduce that’s what is now accepted and understood by him, he made some mistakes which if would not have done then game would have been different, now the main hope of light which rejuvenate his life is that “my journey had some bad stops but I am lucky that every time it happened it was for my melioration”

Dominating petrol price

        Seasons also take time to change but when it comes to petrol price well it hardly takes a fraction of second to change and always whenever it changes the change is on higher side having an increasing trend. Now when again Indians are going to be host of the guest named “price hike in petrol” what this devil guest will add to the already inflated economy of India. Horrified emotions are now only going to be under the mask of smile which human residing in India will have to keep as they are host where this devil guest will be entertained. A lay man earning his bread on daily basis may not understand the highly sensitive terms of economics but let’s not even forget that when a virus enters a computer even a smallest file saved in the computer gets damaged because of its effect and now with again addition of ladders on already lofty staircase of price the situations will get more ambiguous. Where and how to control this is a burning question which our so brave government is not able to understand but here what’s so dreadful is “knowing that our house will be on fire, still when it actually starts burning we like to blame outside factors for it”. Indian government is so solid that’s what is to be understood by this rather it is so courageous that it never has any proactive plans regarding any such “fire”.

Patriotic style

       
       The blog today has to completely deal with a sensational topic which has poured in the fuel of being country men.The country is all set to accept the biggest revolution it could have hardly imagined before.The people here, over seas are much plugged in to the tone of music which has patriotic rhythm.I myself not able to procrastinate that what would be so drastic this time.My views about this fire which is now widespread in whole country  is just that I want to be witness of revolution.

        Way back,in 1947, when India got its freedom, we could not do anything in that freedom movement; but now in 2011when we all are able enough to participate in movement, we should be a live part of it.I have my own set of theories working on this, what is actually getting drafted here is that, 'change only can take shape when all of us get united and work for its formation".The very person behind this in 2011 is determined but, for me its more about India getting the change, which like every Indian , I also want now.

      The youth has made their healthy presence felt in this movement, but still I believe that we the youth face of young India can do more by making sure that definition of democracy is actually practiced: 'for the people, of the people, by the people'

      I am not a democrat, or a bureaucrat but I am just a Indian who is now more interested in cleaning India and keep it walking ahead on the path of progress.

'In 1947 the India got freedom and now in 2011 we are again heading towards not a war but a revolution'

Re-CoNnEcT

Re-cOnNeCT

            The word re-connect sounds so strange, when we hear this, Re-connect means actually what just to get connected again, telephone conversation types which helps us to get Re-connected every time we want to connect to someone. What “re-connect” means?

        The answer to this question is not at all required as what this means can only be understood when we can actually understand what is this Re-connect is all about. Many times we have some wrong conception about the word, this is not just making or getting connected but its more about how this can be seen and even measured on some particular basis. Proper focus now will be on the in depth knowledge about the how and why we need this ‘Re-connect’ in our life or would just say that why this becomes so important in life to actually have this word in our busy dictionary. Hustle-bustle of life always carries a human into different land where he/she is more entangle in some of self living and there’s no wrong in doing so, as we work hard for thing and so in that race of time we lose some connections way back but that does not means that they cannot be again cabled up, they can be cabled up as it’s not about getting connected with new things/humans but it is more about things/humans with whom we just have to get connected again, these things will be living/non-living but at the end its form does not matters as those things/humans matter to us. Here again I will like to show case a live indeed a better way in which we can Re-connect easily

        Two people, well these two people can be friends. Siblings or in any way connected, whats the best way to actually understand the freshness of relation is just to accept the time will have a role to play in it, two people with passage of time will somehow get dis-connected, hunting reasons for the same is not important as it may be just waste of time but what’s important here is what can keep then connected that’s what the very word “Re-connect” will have a stage to play. We may not have the time to handle some one through our busy schedule and that’s no crime as everyone has their individuality but at the end we should also not let that very thing to be mere reasons to get parted up. Though we may not be able to be in contact with someone all the time but at least that also does not means that now that person means nothing to us as at the end some people always have a huge role to play in our life every time. Here I have a story to showcase yet another simple way to make my article more solid

                   “curtains are up and scene is set to be viewed by audience”

           The story which will be aiding this time is much more and pour just to actually show that things and situations are just not under our control but, if we want to keep them the same we can without any problem. The background of the story this time is divided into four people, they are actually connected by the tag of cousins but actually share more of friendly shelter.

      Four of them hardly meet, or spend time together, as busy life does not allow them to spend more. Occasionally they do meet up but that odd one/two day are not so equivalent, to share the banner of life.

       Here again, this would be more of clumsy track as to what actually I am trying to bring out from this, as this is common for four friends also that they can be in the same situations, well reader as far as friend are concerned , I can just be silent on the same as I actually never had them and if at all I had it was just for a while  and so I had to come up with a tale of four cousins.

               pushing rather shifting the gears back on topic, this four cousins are of different age, character and altogether different from each other, though whenever they meet they do not need to brush up their memories every time as that's what the power of Re-connect is.

   Life always has a Re-connect switch, we just need to push it, when we want to, as nothing changes as far as relations are concerned in totality it’s just that we lose that "Connect" and so we always have our super saver tool "Re-connect".

      My last two blogs "2nd chance" and "Proved love" together received a average response from my reader, hoping this time- the maintained length can help me to overcome my limitations and land up in sublime plot

SIgNiNg oFf

FoR THE DAY :-)

         

2nd ChAnCe"

             2nd chance..!!!!!!! so nice it sounds when we hear this word, just imagine this would be like a dream coming true when you are allowed a 2nd chance for the thing which matters to you a lot...and in the 1st attempt you could not justify it properly.Is it really so nice to have 2nd chance? Again before getting to that we should understand that we are not here to evaluate it in any terms rather we are here to understand the over all effect of it which that other chance will have…like wise we all know that if in any case we get the second chance that would be good but to what level it will be good is of more importance

       Well...as a blogger I do not have the right to say any thing as I am here just to type what can entertain crowd so cannot throw up light on this in my way,but still..... the lust and charm what the 1st has, gets lost in second why this happens and what actually is this whole thing is very difficult to understand basically I may put numerous examples for it but it may not be enough for  in depth know-how of what this second chance about which we are talking is,illustrating this I can put a innocent example which can help that why is this article so different and whats so new in this- A boy who wanted a ice-cream..he cried for it....tried all the tantrum in all the way and at last he got that favourite ice cream in his hand..... and suddenly after having one he gets second......he will have it but his satisfaction level was achieved when he ate the 1st one so on having another he may just eat it for the sake of eating.These stories and words would sound like a chapter of economics but the reality is that it is all together a new subject which still has not got any name.....what 2nd chance means to different people is more important then what it is.

        

               Similarly if we see the other side of same example a boy who got the ice-cream in his hand, he starts eating it and suddenly he coincides with other person and the ice-cream fells down, now what has happened here is in the first attempt he did not got the chance to enjoy it but now when again he will get that same ice-cream he may enjoy, but whats hidden here is something which we should understand…. Lets rewind it again…. Boy who wanted ice-cream cries for it and after all childish acts he gets it means the ice-cream and cone which that first cup of ice-cream had..he got it with the same but when that falls down and he gets second will that second cone of ice-cream have the same lust and charm?

ANSWER to it should be given by you only...as now when you are reading this I do not think that to spend some time on answering  will cause you any pain

          My task is here to just to properly give equal weight age to the things so that they are in proper order as here also I cannot be just single track walker.So lets understand from a student point of view:  

For a student for whom marks are more important and for him/her the second chance may work like a miracle as far as the final mark sheet is concerned.... but is it  a wise decision to use the golden 2nd chance for marks and grades...as life is not all about marks and ranks.... its rather a long journey....If at all a 2nd chance is given...then it is important that where we use it... and if we use it like that only then it would just turn out like a second ice-cream.But here also as far as marks a concerned lets understand this by a story: 

         Helloo...

        The story which now you are going to see will be very simple and just taken from near-by surrounding only so without creating any more fuzz the tale starts:

For a boy who was in his final year graduation what can be more important, obviously you all will nod your head on career and future which are now-a-days heavily dependent on marks..well being aware about it the boy also prepares himself in that frame and works.... but he was some where lacking, he knew it but was not able to detect it..... boy wanted to pursue career in management and thus he prepared for entrance tests....this all sound so serious as.... studies and sincerity  is easily portrayed but things were not like that... he was studying but some where some thing was not working for him..this was what he concluded every time he felt that he was not up to the mark.The d-day means exam came...he appeared for it.... could not realise that the outcome of exam whenever will come it will change many things for him... well when gun shoots a bullet its going to hit somewhere so like that only,if you appear exam the results are going  to come,for this boy also the rule was same and his results came....

    when he Saw his result, he was not shocked at all rather started evaluating as to now what next,similar like flow of river water which continues to march ahead he appears for one more exam(here he was going to get two chances)...he was aware about it and well was looking forward to it.. but what was dramatic in it was the situation "the wrong input were given at wrong time" or we can also say that "efforts were put but not target ted properly" by now I am not just safeguarding this boy but actually trying to link him up with my blog.The story continues out of two chances which he got he appeared for the first got the result which was satisfactory now he understood that if some thing extra is given he can update the score easily, so he starts working on it... he focuses on ultimate aim of his.,which he has set  for him....he appears for it and then the results which came were some where like the first one... now what was so wrong in this second attempt which he gave..."lust and charm" which was lacking...well as far as this boy is concerned he is now altogether on happy track where he is looking for some untrodden ways which will entertain him but this blog which is about second chance is now getting clear as what it is actually all about....

      Now when we have talked about marks we should also understand that this is a very important page of a student's life as far as marks and grade are concerned and I think I have just showed you what can be termed as some first few pages of understnading about what can second chance means for a student and thats enough for understanding about the same but what about relations and love and emotions, well how can I leave this as this my favourite area of writing... again here will share a story in a different form

This time for all of you, who have social animal named GF/BF in your life, what second chance can mean to you is well depicted by video which is posted below.A boy who forgets about his date and what else happens with him after that is shown here, and also how he thinks that if a second chance if would have been there then he could have make it far more better... a hilarious but actually much different kind of understanding about how second chance can be so useful at times(but I personally believe that second chance always are not so useful)

Proved love

              Again back with a topic which is more about practical approach towards life and how we can actually understand what is this life all about. “Proved love”, now what I have to say on this is more in form of story then just a  Blog , but I will like to add some proper understanding about the same. My intention here is to just show how this so called 21^st century  is looking towards the ‘love’ word.


         Talking about love in today’s world, I would like to reveal what’s the present know-how of the same: college going student proposing a girl saying “I love you”… the girl without any understanding either will accept his proposal or will reject but in both the cases, nothing is so good…. If she accepts then also and if she rejects then also…. I would just say that why complicate the things as complications would ultimately result in to a situation where things may work adversely…well this is  not what I want to say what I actually what to highlight is ‘love’ cannot be said it has to be proved. I know some of you may laugh that I have  gone nuts but some where or other you also know that love cannot be just shown by saying that ‘you love someone’ rather you have to prove it…. And the most amazing thing which Is hidden is the tenure or the time period which you get to prove it…time limit lets utilize few seconds to think about it…how much time is essential to prove our love for someone, 1 year, 5 years or 15-20 years…. Well the answer to it is…. Life time is required to prove some one your love. life time, just on hearing this some of you will just think how can I even think of it means life cannot be given to someone just on sake of love..but here I will like to reveal a short story which actually will show that how a life time is required to prove your love

                         The story is completely based in Indian setup… two people in there young ages.. one in early 25’s and second one around 18.The story is about how this two strangers tie their knot and bond each other in social bonding termed marriage. Indian concept in olden days was very simple arranged kind of bondings where two unknown come together and are then given a stage where they can live together rest of their life. Now what was so different in this can be brushed up by how both of them wage there journey in life. Both were married and started living like normal husband and wife do,economical condition was also good… everything was like happy life but things do not stay as they are as Bhagwad gita also says “change is basic rule of life”…. Time proceeds business set ups were also going through ups and downs… and ultimately they decide to start there journey alone.. where they themselves would be base of their life. They get a place where they started living with their children… slowly and gradually both of them makes their life count and every thing gets settle though at  slow pace. In this journey husband always needed his wife to be there in all ways… she helped him in his business, she consoled him whenever he wanted, and also made sure that children also are given proper understanding about life.In this over all passing of time both of then understood that how much they love each other... as love is not just eating together at MC Donald's or just roaming on bikes but its rather about accepting the other person and also making every possible step to properly understand that 'life is sweet even with out any sugar'.. again they get a blow on their base and everything got disturbed but they had the biggest strength that was support of each other... they both stood firm and fought every battle ... a time also came when husband had to go far away to earn livelihood but this did not affect their bonding.... after every sunset there's a sun rise the base again got firm and they got there problems handled easily though not solved completely. Today also when wife wants to have a orange juice husband makes sure that he gets it for her.... this what love is.... still it is not proved but process is continuing..

                            so this is what I had this time...so
                            "proved love" is not ended but just started